Those who cry never succeed.

 

We keep crying and this crying is our destiny. Sometimes they cry over failures, sometimes over time, sometimes over regrets, sometimes over scarcity of resources. You even begin to think of yourself as the most oppressed person in the world. Every side of the cruel world is on us. We are thrown away even though we deserve success. The whole world is waiting for us; we keep on regretting and regret is our destiny. Regret for not fulfilling past desires, regret for people's attitudes, regret for infidelity, even regret and doing nothing becomes an integral part of our character. We waste time and the clock keeps ticking.

This article seeks to eliminate all of the above negative effects.  Failures can be turned into successes. According to experts, the thing in which a person wastes most of his time is regret. Most people live in the past. They keep thinking that if I had not done that, the work that has gone wrong would not have gone wrong. Dale Carnegie said that the most important thing in life is not to take advantage of success, every fool can do that. The important thing is that you take advantage of your losses. And that's what makes the difference between a wise man and a fool. Only those who are willing to accept unfavorable conditions succeed in this world.

Even after the disaster:

When Mr. Ian Nash went to Japan, he studied the Japanese nation in depth, after which he said: The Japanese nation was not most affected by politics, but by the great earthquake in Kanto, which devastated eastern Japan. had gone. The second man-made earthquake was in 1945 when Hiroshima and Nagasaki were reduced to rubble. Earthquake becomes a stepping stone to a new development if it creates a constructive mind. Whenever there is an incident of "ruin" in a person's life, he puts it between two possibilities. He either learns from it and re-energizes and rebuilds, or he sighs in frustration and complains.

Winning hidden in the necklace:

The USA Cup is very important in boating competitions. It is called the USA Cup because the United States won the cup for 138 years. For the first time in 1983, the Australian team surprised the world by winning it. This year, Dennis Corner was leading the American team, but he did not give up. He lost for three years but regained the title in the fourth year. One of the main reasons for his victory was divine dissatisfaction. That is, the feeling that this cup has been snatched from me for the first time in history.

Don't give up:

Yale was competing against German aircraft in French territory during World War II. He was alone but somehow stumbled and rescued his ship and brought it to the area of   Spain where he was safe. At the end of the war, the Air Force intended to send him on leave. He was convinced that if I went back now, the Air Force might not need me again. Yale later became the first person to fly a plane faster than sound.

Weakness:

Gandhiji writes in his book In Search of Truth. There was a lot of shyness in me. I couldn't even talk to anyone. When he moved to London, he became a member of the Vegetarian Society. He was once asked to address a meeting. He stood up but could not say anything and sat down thanking. On another occasion he could not even express his thoughts on paper. When he went to fight the case after advocacy, he could not even present arguments before the judge and asked his client to hire another lawyer but Gandhiji writes that these shortcomings later proved to be a great blessing for me. The hesitation that once seemed so painful to me. The biggest benefit of it was that it taught me to speak in short words. I naturally developed the habit of controlling my thoughts. Now I can say with confidence that it is very difficult for a word to ever come out of my mouth or pen.

Travel Resources Zafar:

Kamran Rafi and Irfan Ali were once on their way to Balochistan for training. After landing at Khanewal, he was mistakenly told that the train would stop here for ten minutes. They left the station and when they returned, the car was gone. There was a temporary disturbance, largely due to the fact that they had the company's projector and multimedia, which were certainly expensive items and were rare in those days. They had handed them over to someone. Well, the water was gone. What should be done now? He immediately decided that the next stop of the car is Bahawalpur. If he could reach there, he might find the car and things too, otherwise the next stop would have been in Sindh where it would have been almost impossible to catch the car again. They came running out of the station. He paid the asking price and rented a taxi. Requested it as fast as possible. The driver also understood the delicacy of the matter. After speeding on the single road, they reached Bahawalpur a few moments before the train arrived. Fortunately, they did not hand over the goods to the station master. Stressful situations are a test for the nerves that can withstand them and keep the brain. Success kisses their steps.

We are rare:

A friend of mine, Nabil, has endured the hardships of life. My father died in my childhood. Due to being the eldest in the family, mountains of sorrow and misery were broken. Sometimes the situation would get so bad that the nerves of this weak soul would get heavy. The eyes would be filled with tears. We would have known but he would have drunk it and would not have let it come out of the eye sockets. No matter how many times we would not have money to pay the fee but in the end it was successful. He faced discouraging situations. He kept laughing and laughing. If he had not laughed, he would have died. The wheel of time kept moving and it kept moving forward smiling. Lack of resources, poverty, young age could not stop it. Eventually he became a doctor. He opened his own clinic while working in a hospital. Circumstances began to unravel, sides began to recover and he stood on his own two feet; he could easily have won people's sympathy for his frustrations for a while if he had wanted to. He could have easily complained to the world if he wanted to, but he turned his frustrations into power. This is the power of divine dissatisfaction. Miracles begin to unfold when you decide to give your reaction a positive charge and take over the world.

The above examples also make it clear that if one problem arises then there are many solutions. The problem itself is that there are solutions. We just have to get to them. And for the one who keeps knocking, the door is opened. Experts say that search is more common among the poor. "I've always seen great people come out of huts," Voltaire said. What is the difference between a common man and them? He never cried for his condition. He never wasted his time in sadness. Always be positive, be optimistic. Eventually the world surrendered to them. Whenever there is a loss, we often say and hear that there is some improvement. It has also been observed that we are not committed to anything while saying this. Rather, it seems that they are supporting their frustration. This sentence is very powerful, but the problem is that we do not realize it.